Hello Dr. Danny,
I know that it is disappointing to see where these churches and their leaders really are but this is all they know and unfortunately, most will never give up their golden calves. Realize that in order for these people to give it all up and follow the scriptural truth concerning the church, they will have to abandon their structure and all the perks that that they have therewith accrued. This is a tall order! Very few are willing to do this. If you have tried numerous times to discuss this and there has only been resistance and eventual cessation of communication then I would recommend moving on because it will only turn to strife, at some point. As a final measure I would give them my teachings to listen to or read but if they have not been open to entertain you up until now, then they probably won’t be willing to listen.
I know it is a lonely road but it is worth it and the Holy Spirit will provide fellowship for you. I encourage you to join our teleconference call on Wednesday nights. Let us know if you are interested and we will send you the info. Blessings,